Day's last step

16th Jan'14 - 10:00 PM (IST)

Nothing special today, was as usual or nothing identical, went as rest of the days.
Thoughts running in mind, success, failure, work, meetings, social and many. Travel to office, work, loads of work which never end. 
Once i use to say divide your work as you cannot do your entire work in a single day, impossible. Never stay idle, if no work then create a work to be efficacious, as marketing people do, even if  there is no want of product to be bought, marketing guys will create one in mind., that's the key to success.

Woah, wondered a bit on how will i take myself a step ahead, will climb on the highest peak even if there is thorns on way. "Walking in path of darkness, no shield to protect myself. Since lost all hope that had, walking still assuming, i may receive.

Days are passed as normal or usual, to make it unique, entail energy. When think of putting efforts then there is Chetan Bhagat who advises to spend more time with family, hangout with friends, take your girl friend for a movie... heheh.. well i am just kidding. He is also right, as one should not absolve themselves in land of work, you gain nothing other than money. Money will fulfill all your need but when you need someone to listen to you to out speak your heart, you will find none. Doing hard work is important at the same time you must also spend quality time with family and friends.
Damn when i begin to take the step of doing something productive that's when the laziness fly across your brain and hamper them :-P
Ah! Life is not easy that's my good old friend use to say. You have to struggle then only Lord the merciful shower blessings. Well yeah same feeling with me, As you pedal your cycle you will move fast so like is life made of......

Travelling back home, no crowd in bus, lil throat pain due to winter. Have to practice my act for Chazon.
Also chatting with friends on whats app .. Yo.. Yo.. ;-)

Happy new year - 2014

1st Jan'14

Today is the beginning of 2014 + my birthday... Well most people make merry on the beginning of new year by going to bash or a party place and some go to church or temple to be sanctified from god for the whole year and asking for the forgiveness of faux pas or misdemeanor committed on previous year... 
Well i have nothing against people who go for social gathering, actually even i love to merrymaking and dance even after not having the knack for it :P
Its good to have fun too. :-) :- ) Which i miss !!!!
Yep the day began by going to church at 31st night. :-)

I specially thank friends who kept me in prayers and wished me, its really kindhearted of them and you feel humbled when you know that someone care for you. Friends are most important part of each's life..
"Lucky are those for having different friends for each occasion but blessed are those for having same friends on all occasion."
Its not easy to sustain relationship with one, my sincere thanks to all for being with me always.

There are many things to achieve in this 2014... will have to put more efforts to accomplish dreams.. Already geared up for it.. Let's see how it works out.

Now, would like to wish you a very happy new year, may this year bring love, peace and abundance in your life :-) Que la bénédiction du Seigneur soit avec tous. May lord's blessing be with all.

:-)

The whole universe conspires to help when you try to achieve something

29th Dec'13

With so many things life is consisted of.. Days pass by sometime and you remain perplexed of the current status quo... There is a lot of dreams that you wish to fulfill but not sure if it is ever gonnna happen. To overcome daily complications we formulate to do things in certain way but it remain unexecuted.

Few days back read this line of bible from an holy bible app where everyday you receive a daily verse.. It was like this,

Proverb-19:21 
"Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand."

               We ponder over on so many thoughts in our lives, had ever calculated how many of them were completed or made it live. ? If analysed more of this notions are worries, which occupies our brain entire day. But as read above, its up to Lord of what we receive and not obtain.
This doesn't mean that you must leave everything to God cause he(Lord) just show us the way and its on to us if we take the step or not..
Well we must never stop dreaming of what we want, Lord being a father of ours make sure that we receive the best we can handle. And also it is said, "If you wish to achieve something in life, the whole universe conspires to get it for you.

Being human we are frightened, we fear of losing those people or those things that are close to our heart or something which we never ever would think of going out of our hand. But friends there is no fun without challenges, let trouble come, do not fear, strive to overcome those problems and damn after accomplishing the work, the happiness you receive is incredible. Its a feeling of proudness. :-) Its similar to the one that your parents feel when you do something unexpected and come to a success.

Enjoy each moments that you live, give away grudges if there is any... Bring happiness by being happy :-) as when you are happy, people around you also get blissed. Never resist yourselves from achieving your dream, one day you will live what you wished for.

:-)

Respect whom you meet

28th Dec'13

We encounter with many people daily... 
Our friends, relatives, siblings and more... Reason for saying "more" is cause every person we meet across is connected with us and we get in relationship with them in one or the other way.

Sometime we come in  a situation where we find people behave in a uncanny way or maybe a way that we didn't expected them to react so, as to which we pass some remark on them irrespective of their presence or absence and comment is always turn out to be negative or it can also be a scepticism on person or either a question may get raised in erroneous way in our mind. And this all happen without knowing the key reason of their reaction.

This made me think of a story which is like this...

There was a father, whose son met with an accident and he was to be hospitalized immediately, father got his son at hospital.. Doctor came and began the operation, when surgical procedure was over, doctor moved instantaneously from that place without having word with the father of a boy whom he operated. On seeing doc's behavior, father got exasperate and started contemplating about doctor's rude behavior and stepped ahead angrily to nurse at the near counter who was executing some paper work and said, how discourteous the doctor have appeared to him; on asking why ? Father Exclaimed that the doc moved away without saying word or advising him about the prescription to be given to his Kid... To which Nurse said; Sir, The doctor who operated your son was performing last rights of his son, as his son is no more after being met with an accident.. While performing his last rights he was given a call to rescue your son and now he is accelerating for the cremation. Listening to this Father felt embarrassed.

Its a nice story to think about.

Suddenly in resentment we say many things to people we meet, to which we never try to understand what opposite person may be going through currently and we hurl him with bitter words.

To this a very nice quote came in my mind which is "Don't use harsh words on someone cause you may not know what phase that person may be going through".

Keep smiling and make others smile. :-)

Merry Christmas

27th Dec'13

Our church's crib glimpse, work done by our MGOCSM member a student movement who did the decor of church for first time. I found this crib most attractive. Here is a glimpse of it.

Wishing and Merry Christmas and Happy New Year in advance to all.. :-)

Judging others and making wrong decision

30th April'13

Why we all are interested in judging others without knowing the fact. Why people play the role of God ? Why one get influence by other ? Why not one make their own decision ? This is the question that comes in my mind when other judges. 

I have mentioned "Why people play the role of God ?", because we often do that; people do make mistakes and every one of us tend to commit mistake and here we must forgive them and move ahead instead of judging them and playing the role of God. Judging others will keep one person away from you and only thing you will have for that person is grudges, do you think it is worthwhile ? 

Some time we make judgement by knowing the true fact and by not knowing.

Well even if we know the so-called true facts, and the person had hurt us purposefully, do we really need to punish them ? And after punishing a person will the mistakes be rectified ? Instead of this, why not make them understand what is good or wrong. Yeah though People are grown ups and mature, they have the capability of understanding things on their own but by making them know to work on right things, will not put your value down, it will raise yourselves up as you are teaching someone on living good. We are humans, we are bound to make mistakes and with mistakes we learn and after committing a mistake we improves and we all of us, in one or the other way, intentionally or unintentionally do make mistakes. If you think you did something wrong and seek for forgiveness; so, why not forgive for what wrong others did to you ? Forgive other and move ahead, let it go. Surely you will feel proud of yourself for what you did. 

Another thing is, Why one get influence by other ? 
Damn! God has given you eye to see, ear to hear, brain to think. After having all these qualities why not make your own decision ? why getting carried away by others perception ? Think on your own and make decision, letting others come and drive you away into a wrong path with their influencing words shows that you do not have your own capabilities. Its good to make a decision after understanding a person well and not by understanding partially.

Hope some people learn things with time, as with time we get knowledge and with time we get wisdom. 

A meet up with few old friends

10th April'13

Yesterday evening went to meet up with my Junior college buddies, it was a sudden plan by one of us due to eagerness in meeting up with us and also it has been more than 4 years we met after leaving college.

It was only 4 of us who met, wish the whole group had united together but sometime thinking of reunion of the whole group seems to be impossible because some are out of state for studies, few went abroad for work and some couldn't take an off from work. Yet another reason for impossibilities is personal grudges which raised against each other before our college got over, can be said due to reasons like misunderstanding, stupidity and immaturity that we had when we were 16 or 17 years old. I am not sure if resentment is still existing in one's heart or not but yeah if its not, then the whole group would get happy to meet up as we all miss our old days.

If heard the whole story, it may sound a little like Bollywood films, cause our life then was filled with drama, emotions, laughter, love, fight, argument, dance and much more and also like your group get split into two before the college gets over which is traditional in real life and reel life. Gosh after having a conversation with friends yesterday i missed my old days very badly and i guess same is the condition with others.

Well we guys met at a mall at Bhyander - Mumbai. It was pretty nice feeling and a grin also reached our face after seeing each other :)

We began searching for a bench to sit outside the mall which is likely getting a seat in Mumbai local trains during peak hours and luckily we got one. But before that we asked each other about current affairs in life, later continued conversing and knowing about other people of the group. With times i forgot few memories too but through chatting had recollect all of those memories, some were weird some were funny :P :D

Very good thing to share is every moment we lived is unforgettable  we lived our own lives no one to stop us, no restriction in any manner. Cannot forget the moment of happiness we had. Doing dance practice for college cultural festival, going to one friends place just to watch movie together and to other friends home to play games like dumsheras, truth or dare, this truth and dare game made gals cry a lot and guys with laughter. :P it was so because the gals use to take truth and they get emotional after disclosing certain things and with guys performing dare was funniest :D
One of our friend's home was close to our college, an hideout to pass our time by cooking food and have talks and talks and talks :D
And cannot forget our Velankani church, we often hangout there because of the beach and also cause of the beauty and calmness. We never bothered to travel 10-12 KM to reach Velankani, i guess twice a week we be there only. whole year we were cracking out jokes pulling each others leg, wasting our time, not letting the professor to teach us, going for movies, mixing all chemical bottle in chemistry lab so that the next batch doesn't get the proper result, doing time pass with our biology and chemistry teacher, flirting with others.. not me, my friend i mean :P  damn wish to go back and live those days again. Aur phir pata nahi kyu kiski nazar lagi humein, the last two month of the second year was disturbing, nothing was going good but woh buri batein be bhoolni padi thi so to prepare ourselves with board exam, this has also affected our result too but not in worst way :P

After discussing on things that we did on those days, we laughed on ourselves lot. Our childish behavior .. hehe.. Before leaving we took some pics for memories, i am not having it currently or other had post some of them here.
One thing learnt is .. Hurtful words cannot be forgotten but person who said those words can be forgiven. With immature behavior we all made mistakes but this mistakes has improved by our wisdom. 
After talking loads we had to hurry home and planned to meet again with other guys too. Lets see how is this possible and if reunion can ever happen or it can only be imagined.